Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Just Wasn't A Right Fit

Taken from Plutrach's biography on Aemelius Paulus

His [Aemelius Paulus] first wife was Papiria, the daughter of Maso, who had formerly been consul. With her he lived a considerable time in wedlock, and then divorced her, though she had made him the father of noble children; being mother of the renowned Scipio and Fabius Maximus. The reason of this separation has not come to our knowledge; but there seems to be a truth conveyed in the account of another Roman's being divorced from his wife, which may be applicable here. 
This person being highly blamed by his friends, who demanded, Was she not chaste? was she not fair? was she not fruitful? 
Holding out his shoe, asked them, Whether it was not new? and well made? Yet, added he, none of you can tell where it pinches me. 
Certain it is, that great and open faults have often led to no separation; while mere petty repeated annoyances, arising from unpleasantness or incongruity of character, have been the occasion of such estrangement as to make it impossible for man and wife to live together with any content. 

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